Special bonds with the elders of our family
By Jill Donald
Our grandparents have many lessons to teach us. It was from our
grandparents, that our parents learned what they have passed onto
us. Jessica Diaz, senior, explained that her parents strictness
was a result of how their parents had raised them.
Grandparents like to be active in our lives. Nick Romanick, senior,
explained, My grandparents live down the street from me. I work
on cars with my grandfather while my grandmother makes dinner
for us.
Some grandparents have even raised their grandchildren from birth.
Some are so close that their whole family lives together. Brandy
Adelstein, sophomore, spends her summers living in Hull with her
Grandparents.
Unfortunately, some of us miss out on this special relationship.
Derek Fox, freshman, said, I am not very close with my grandparents
because I dont see them. However, the time he was with them
they went to see the Statue of Liberty together.
Teenagers who have had close relationships with their grandparents
talk to them at least once a week. They spend time playing cards,
helping them shop, going to church, lunch, and just talking.
Teens had heart warming memories of their grandparents. A smile
would emerge and their eyes would sparkle as they shared their
story. Grandparents have carved a special place in our hearts.
Darlene Hughes, senior, recalled the times that her grandmother
took care of her while her father was working. James Shannon,
junior, remembers going to Las Vegas with his grandfather. He
went on to say, [My grandparents] are like second parents. Tony
Lamar, senior, talks with his grandparents every day because theyre
sweet. Anna Fegan, sophomore, enjoys spending time with her
grandparents at family parties.
When I think of my grandmother the story that comes to mind is
when my relatives ripped apart my pink blanket when I was little.
It was dirty and they did not want me to have it anymore. So my
grandmother wisely bought me a new pink blanket. My grandfather
and I had an equally close relationship. He taught me about my
religion; he was there for me at all times. I lived with him during
two summers. We played cribbage and hed laugh when he skunked
me. He was more than just a member of my family; he was my friend.
After my grandmother died, my grandpa was heart broken. He went
to the cemetery twice a day. Once when I was at his house, he
sat next to me on the couch, put his arm around me, and he showed
me their wedding album. His tears grew as he flipped each new
page.
The memories of our grandparents will forever be with us. If distance
is the only problem preventing closeness, then consider alternate
ways of communicating, such as email, letters, or the telephone.
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